Wednesday, January 24, 2007
My sorrow
No, I am not sad. I have actually been incredibly happy this past month. It all started with PASSION 07. I thought the fire I experienced listening to Francis Chan, Louie Giglio, John Piper, and Beth Moore would subside over the following weeks... but to my awestruck surprise, it has not!
I am still praying every day for the residents of South Dakota, Melbow, Leanne, Elizabeth, Hannah, CB, and Mikity... to name a few.
Instead, my sorrow comes in the form of friends who walk away from a situation without wanting to discuss what is wrong. When I disagree with a statement you make, and you decide ignore me... it makes me wonder why I am still your friend.
For those of you who are confused, let me give you an example without names -- although, Mike knows exactly who I am talking about:
A girl makes the following comment to Mike: "Looks like Hillary is running for President. How does it feel to be a man now?"
To which I respond: "There's no way she will ever become President. People will come out of the wood-works to stop a woman from running this country."
Now, in my own defense, I think my statement is entirely accurate. People would turn out to vote if it meant keeping the status-quo. The same could be said if a black or gay man tried to run for the office of President.
However, this person took my statement as an attack against all women, and basically decided to punish Mike and I by ignoring us and walking away. I'm sorry, but that's not how friends should act towards each other.
So while I am not directly sad that this girl stopped all communication with me... I feel a deep sorrow towards her. I wonder what happened in her life to make her blow up over the simplest of words. To immediately take offense and pull out the vagina-card whenever a "man" says something she disagrees with.
I will be praying that your heart softens and you will take the time to talk things over with me...
In other news: GAME NIGHT @ Juliana's on Friday! I am co-hosting a board-game-filled evening where everyone is invited over for some good clean fun (with sugar free Red Bull and food to boot). The following weekend is the Aquarius Birthday Party -- for all Aquariuses out there who want to celebrate his or her birthday with good friends. I am still working out the details of the event, but I will post the information soon(tm). Promise.



Every person was to bring a new bath towel and a pair of socks, to donate to various homeless shelters around Atlanta. In addition, there were many wonderful organizations gathered together that allowed everyone to "Do Something Now" -- primarily to help put out the fire in Africa. You could help 






